What is Custody?
Custody has nothing to do with the time one shares with his or her child. Custody deals strictly with decision making power. The parent with custody of the child will have final say on all major decisions relating to the child.
Major Categories of Decisions
The four main categories of major decisions, are decisions which relate to the child’s:
- residence, and
Thus, the custodial parent (the parent with custody of the child) will have the final decision making power relating to the aforementioned categories of decisions, in the event of a disagreement.
Obligations of Custodial Parent
A custodial parent has a positive legal obligation to involve the non-custodial parent in the decision making process, or at the very least, inform the non-custodial parent, prior to making the decision. Failing to do so is a breach of the basic parenting principles set out in the Children Law Reform Act.
Joint custody, which is becoming more and more common place, means that both parents have equal decision making power, or equal say with respect to major decisions relating to the child’s health, education, residence and religion.
No major decision relating to these categories can be made unilaterally (without consultation, and consent of the other parent) by one of the parents.
Sole versus Joint Custody
Typically, whether a court makes a sole or joint custody order will depend on the parents’ historic decision making process, ie. the status quo.
Thus, if the parents had historically both been very involved in the child’s life, the presumption will be that they were jointly parenting, and the post separation custodial regime should reflect what was in place during their union.
If, on the other hand one of the parents was the sole decision maker, while the other parent’s involvement was absent, or limited, a sole custody order to the former parent is likely.
The single greatest challenge in custody cases is the determination of the truth. The parent seeking sole custody will allege that the other parent was an uninvolved, or quasi absent parent, while the parent seeking joint custody will allege that he, or she, was an actively involved parent. This is the classic he said, she said scenario. Because neutral third party evidence is often difficult to obtain, such cases can become quite costly to litigate.
In such circumstances, courts will often order that a social worker or a lawyer from the Office of the Children’s Lawyer be appointed to perform an independent investigation in order to determine what is in the child’s best interest.
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